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1. Ignore them. If you don’t like someone, then you don’t need to pretend that you like him or her. Besides, there is a high chance that the other person also doesn’t like you. Just put it this way – when you see each other, just proceed with what you’re doing as if you didn’t see anything.

2. When you’re with a group of people and the person you don’t like show up, excuse yourself and say ‘guys, it need to go now. My mom told me to buy her slimming pills.’ Do it with a giggle and don’t even look at the person.

3. If you don’t like someone, don’t attempt to make any conversation. When a friend asks you why you don’t like the other person, just say ‘I don’t know… I just don’t feel like talking because I’ve got bad breath, may be she’ll smell it’; you can say this in a whisper.

4. There are times when the people you really don’t like are also the ones that you usually encounter or see everyday. When you can’t avoid being in the company of the person, just tell the group that you need to hurry home because you forgot to brush your teeth and that you’re teeth are already turning yellow; do this while covering your mouth. Walk away briskly.

5. You can also communicate with them nicely if you can’t make an escape. But don’t be overly nice to them. You can even make a joke like ‘hey, do you know that someone here doesn’t like you?’ and try to smile mischievously.

6. Be polite and don’t try to spark dispute. Or you can also imagine them naked… you will surely laugh at the thought. But just don’t make it too obvious because the other person might suspect that you’re laughing at him.

7. If the other person always makes unkindly remarks, you can answer back in a nice way while maintaining your posture. ‘Why are you like that? Do I have manure on my face?’; ‘may be you need to look at yourself in the mirror’.

8. Give that person a gift – a jack in the box. That way, you can make the other person angry or happy. Just take a look at her/his surprised face. Somehow, you were able to bring out the feelings you have inside but in a reasonable way.

9. In a crowded place, you can trip the person you don’t like especially if he or she has been saying mean things to you in the past. No one will notice since it’s crowded anyway… and just keep on walking so that the other person will not notice.

10. If you can’t avoid the other person, you can always be civil in dealing with him or her. You can tell the other person that you don’t like his or her style in clothing and that it’s out of fashion; then give him or her some tips to dress properly.

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I believe most are clueless to the reality of love. Love is not a picture of happiness, most try to capture. Love has its parallels. To love someone is a blessing in hand and a challenge in another. Sometimes it is hard to love. And sometimes we are desperate to love. To take on the challenge of love is not about getting someone to love us. It is about whether we can continue to love through all that is good as well that is bad, in order to unveil a love so great.

There is a false notion that love is only the good things. Everything good is right, and everything right is good? This is not so the case. In real love there is no judgment over the good or bad. When you make a choice to commit and love someone, it entails all the good and all the bad. Despite the difficulties of this and the conclusion we sometimes come to. We must realize it is not about giving away our love to someone who may seem undeserving. The strength and dignity you acquire when you can overlook your own judgment and love someone through their pain will bring you more fulfillment than you can imagine. The true parallel in love is not the good side and bad side. It is the love of self and the love of another. By loving someone else we learn to love ourselves.

We are drawn to find this love in our companions. It is undeniable the love we have for our children. And what we will do for them. Then why are we finding ourselves unhappy and unsatisfied? The challenge to love will bring you to your knees. You will reach a point where you find what you hate in someone, when in actuality it is what you hate in yourself. And of course you will retreat in denial. Not many get past this point. It is very difficult to balance the parallels of love. Although, it seems so hard to face this inner hatred, we continue to move towards it in hopes to find love.

The challenge is the love itself, not the person you chose to give it to. Through this person you will face the things you really hate in yourself and in this world. Face these things with your hatred and conquer them as you hate them. It takes a great understanding and courage withstanding.

When we choose only to protect ourselves we can only live on one line. One line is weak alone. But, when we choose to extend ourselves through love we create a bond between ourselves and another. The parallel lines with a force held in place in between. And when we continue to extend that love to the people in our lives, we create a foundation united.

Love is a great thing to accomplish. And great things are accomplished through vision, preparation, motivation, struggle, determination, and a love so fierce that anything is possible. To love is to face the things you hate, to hate is the motivation to break down the things that stand in the way of a love so great.

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