Just about every single day, I hear all different types of people from all different walks of life, stating things that basically cut them off from all of their personal growth and their total abundance. Such things as: “No matter what I do, I can’t get ahead”, and “I can’t believe I am always going stupid things like this”. Hearing all of these things is a shame because all of this is completely unnecessary.
Let me just take a minute of your time and ask you to answer a couple of questions.
- As an individual, are you convincing yourself out of living your life to the fullest with a self-concept that you have created?
- With your self talk, who do you make yourself out to be?
Whether you know it or not, your self-esteem level sets your personal success bar for every single detail about you. Each decision that you make is going to be filtered through your overall self-concept. Your overall self-concept is considered to be the out-picturing of your overall self-esteem. Below, you will find the eight reflections of your self-esteem level:
- Your Friends
- Your Career Choice
- Your Income Level
- Your Primary Relationship with Others
- Your Car
- Your Home
- Your Vacations
- Your Hobby Choices and Free Time
In an instant, your entire life can be changed by changing what you believe in concerning yourself. You need to build-up your self-esteem and self-concept. However, in order to be properly maintained, your self-concept is going to require attention and even care. Always remember that it isn’t as simple as just stating that you feel good with yourself, and that’s the last of it.
Did you know that self-talk comes at a steady magazine page full of text each and every minute of the day? As you can imagine that is a whole lot of talking to yourself. In the event that you load your mind with a lot of positive input, it is going to be a wealthy bet that most of the self-talk will be in positive forms and it will foster professional and personal growth.
Personal development is very important to your overall health. If you continue to go on with your everyday life feeling down and out, upset about every little thing that happens, you aren’t going to be able to be the person that you were meant to be. In order to provide yourself with self-help, you have to take into consideration all of the things that make you feel the way that you do. You have to take into consideration, your good and bad qualities.